EMBRACE YOUR IMPERFECTIONS

Hello guys, welcome to my blog post and if this is your first time on my page, I humbly welcome you and I hope you always come back :)

There is something I have always wanted to share asides these amazing photos if I do say so myself.

I recently understood the true meaning of loving yourself. Loving yourself doesn't mean you have to be in the best of moods, or perfect mental state before you can appreciate who you are. It doesn't mean you have to be financially stable or have the perfect body. 

You could be at your lowest and still be very much happy. Happiness is a feeling that comes from within and I am not by any means trying to say it is very easy to get to that level of being happy regardless of whats going on around you.

Happiness and Peace of mind go hand in hand. For you to have peace of mind/happiness, all you need do is accept yourself as you are, love yourself unconditionally. Christ loves us unconditionally. This means we don't have to be perfect before he can love us. Whichever way we are, he accepts us. Its like a mother loving her child. No matter the condition of her child, she loves her child regardless. If God and your parents can love you this much (the only ones who really matter), why can't you love yourself that much?

 There are so many things that bring us to our lowest but I will focus on body image, which most of us struggle with. You have to embrace your size.


In my opinion, if you would love to add or reduce in size, the only way you can do so easily is when you love yourself first, then you can decide on which step to take in making yourself get to where you want to. I find that when you don't accept who you are first, you end up wallowing in sorrow and sink slowly into depression and probably even gain much more weight if that's your problem area. You see that it becomes difficult to achieve your goal this way.

 So darlings, whatever size you are, rock it to the fullest. Be confident, that's the best outfit anyone could ever wear. I'm not saying you shouldn't take active steps in losing or gaining weight, I am only saying appreciate yourself much more, love yourself unconditionally and embrace your imperfections. Nobody is perfect. Even the person you consider as perfect is struggling with her imperfections so please never look down on yourself. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!

Let's talk about these outfits for a bit lol. I received this yellow platform heels from Cipofalva.hu and I knew immediately it would be my spring staple! They are soooo comfortable. They also have a lot of other awesome shoes and accessories so please check them out. They do next day delivery for those in Hungary. Similar shoe here I got the pants from Zara (old), Bag is from Zara (old), Shades from stradivarius . My skirt is from Deluxe Hues, unfortunately, I didn't like the fitting on me but I tried to make it work. (P.S if you know any good tailor here in Hungary, please send me a message), Tshirt is from Bershka Earrings are from Zara.

I hope I was able to inspire someone today. Dress up and Slay :)

Check out https://t.co/KYVv9EYFLx for cool outfits and accessories.

Thanks for your time

xoxo

Obsy P.

YELLOW

Yellow has a way of bringing sunshine and brightness to my life lol and if you watched my haul video, I said this summer has got me feeling all the yellows, mustards, bronze or the rusty gold.

How cool is this casual set from Zara. It is super comfortable and I paired it with these old brown sandals I got from Zara some years ago. You can also rock this look with a nice pair of white sneakers. This bag I won from a giveaway, is absolutely everything. It has a way of transforming this whole look to a more classy look if paired with a nice pair of heels as well. 

It is available in other colors too if you would like something less bright. I love how the green leaves and pop of purple flowers complement the look

I hope you enjoyed the sunshine on this post lol and you got some tips into styling.

Thanks for your time and remain Fabulous!

xoxo

Obsy P

Instagram: @obsy_p

JEANS FOR THICK

Hello everyone, its safe to say happy new year since I haven't made a post in a long time. I have been pretty occupied with school work and exams. I have decided to put in more effort and be consistent with anything I do, so help me God lol. Without taking so much of your time, let's get to today's post.

If you know me or you have been following me @obsy_p, you will know very well that I am not on the slim side, even more, pronounced lower body which has its advantages and disadvantages lol. But hey, you have got to love yourself/body. That's the first step to self-confidence, rock that thickness like nothing else, embrace your curves, dress well and look fly :)


One of the major problems for us thick girls is actually finding the perfect jeans that fit. For me, my thighs are thicker than my waist so when I get jeans that actually fit my thighs, it turns out that the waist is too big which saddens me a lot.  I can't count how many times I get this question. I also find it very hard to get very comfortable jeans but I think I seem to have a little way around it which I am willing to share.

These are my tips in no particular order:

Know your size and wear your size: Sometimes, we thick girls get the illusion that we are small or maybe feel ashamed to get a larger size. This right here is your number one problem. Don't be ashamed of who you are, I wear size 42 for my trousers and sometimes size 42 isn't really size 42 in shops that have fluctuating sizes. There are also times I would have to go a size up- 44 just to make sure they fit perfectly. So please stick to your size, it even gives you more confidence when you find your size and they fit and trust me its a lot easier to dress in your size without feeling too big ;)

I luckily stumbled on the perfect jeans from pull and bear: size 42 and stretchy 

Stretchy jeans: Now I'm not talking about jeggings or tights. I mean actual jeans but stretchy. I personally love these types because they take the shape of my body which gives it that perfect fit. Sometimes I get my actual size and make sure they are stretchy so that the waist doesn't turn out too big. But be careful because in some shops, when the jeans are stretchy, it will be perfect to go a size lower for that perfect fit, here I recommend you try it out in the changing room before purchasing (which I detest so much). Most of the time I buy them to try at home, if they don't fit, I return them.

Jeans are from mango- size 42

High Waisted Jeans: I love high waisted jeans. it definitely gives my body a very nice silhouette. In fact, I recommend that most of your jeans be high waisted. It helps to hide some of those naughty folds that would pop out if you wore low waisted jeans. You could even pass with a crop top and not look or feel too exposed.

Jeans are high waisted and stretchy from Fashionnova - size 1x (plus size)

Jeggings/tights: I don't own a lot of these because some of them are not as durable. They look and feel nice at first but after a while, they start slacking or getting overstretched. Instead of them fit perfectly, they drop down from the waist etc. But I mean not all are expensive so you can keep restocking when they wear out. Also, there are some durable jeggings, I get mine from Zara most times.

Jeggings from Zara: size Large

Other pants I recommend are wide legged pants or palazzo pants: Of cos, these are for the special occasions. Those dressy moments you want to feel very put together, try investing in these. They make you look so expensive without trying.

Pants from Zara

If you don't seem to get your size from the regular section, check out the plus size section, they definitely have nice jeans that will definitely fit.

I recommend these shops: Zara, Tally Weil, fashionnova  prettylittlething 

If you would like me to make a post on how to look expensive on a budget, do let me know. I hope you've been able to learn a few tips on how I select the perfect jeans to wear for my body type. Feel free to ask me any more questions you may have.

Stay blessed and remember CONFIDENCE is the best outfit anyone could rock. :)

xoxo
Obsy P.
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