EMBRACE YOUR IMPERFECTIONS

Hello guys, welcome to my blog post and if this is your first time on my page, I humbly welcome you and I hope you always come back :)

There is something I have always wanted to share asides these amazing photos if I do say so myself.

I recently understood the true meaning of loving yourself. Loving yourself doesn't mean you have to be in the best of moods, or perfect mental state before you can appreciate who you are. It doesn't mean you have to be financially stable or have the perfect body. 

You could be at your lowest and still be very much happy. Happiness is a feeling that comes from within and I am not by any means trying to say it is very easy to get to that level of being happy regardless of whats going on around you.

Happiness and Peace of mind go hand in hand. For you to have peace of mind/happiness, all you need do is accept yourself as you are, love yourself unconditionally. Christ loves us unconditionally. This means we don't have to be perfect before he can love us. Whichever way we are, he accepts us. Its like a mother loving her child. No matter the condition of her child, she loves her child regardless. If God and your parents can love you this much (the only ones who really matter), why can't you love yourself that much?

 There are so many things that bring us to our lowest but I will focus on body image, which most of us struggle with. You have to embrace your size.


In my opinion, if you would love to add or reduce in size, the only way you can do so easily is when you love yourself first, then you can decide on which step to take in making yourself get to where you want to. I find that when you don't accept who you are first, you end up wallowing in sorrow and sink slowly into depression and probably even gain much more weight if that's your problem area. You see that it becomes difficult to achieve your goal this way.

 So darlings, whatever size you are, rock it to the fullest. Be confident, that's the best outfit anyone could ever wear. I'm not saying you shouldn't take active steps in losing or gaining weight, I am only saying appreciate yourself much more, love yourself unconditionally and embrace your imperfections. Nobody is perfect. Even the person you consider as perfect is struggling with her imperfections so please never look down on yourself. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!

Let's talk about these outfits for a bit lol. I received this yellow platform heels from Cipofalva.hu and I knew immediately it would be my spring staple! They are soooo comfortable. They also have a lot of other awesome shoes and accessories so please check them out. They do next day delivery for those in Hungary. Similar shoe here I got the pants from Zara (old), Bag is from Zara (old), Shades from stradivarius . My skirt is from Deluxe Hues, unfortunately, I didn't like the fitting on me but I tried to make it work. (P.S if you know any good tailor here in Hungary, please send me a message), Tshirt is from Bershka Earrings are from Zara.

I hope I was able to inspire someone today. Dress up and Slay :)

Check out https://t.co/KYVv9EYFLx for cool outfits and accessories.

Thanks for your time

xoxo

Obsy P.

YELLOW

Yellow has a way of bringing sunshine and brightness to my life lol and if you watched my haul video, I said this summer has got me feeling all the yellows, mustards, bronze or the rusty gold.

How cool is this casual set from Zara. It is super comfortable and I paired it with these old brown sandals I got from Zara some years ago. You can also rock this look with a nice pair of white sneakers. This bag I won from a giveaway, is absolutely everything. It has a way of transforming this whole look to a more classy look if paired with a nice pair of heels as well. 

It is available in other colors too if you would like something less bright. I love how the green leaves and pop of purple flowers complement the look

I hope you enjoyed the sunshine on this post lol and you got some tips into styling.

Thanks for your time and remain Fabulous!

xoxo

Obsy P

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JEANS FOR THICK

Hello everyone, its safe to say happy new year since I haven't made a post in a long time. I have been pretty occupied with school work and exams. I have decided to put in more effort and be consistent with anything I do, so help me God lol. Without taking so much of your time, let's get to today's post.

If you know me or you have been following me @obsy_p, you will know very well that I am not on the slim side, even more, pronounced lower body which has its advantages and disadvantages lol. But hey, you have got to love yourself/body. That's the first step to self-confidence, rock that thickness like nothing else, embrace your curves, dress well and look fly :)


One of the major problems for us thick girls is actually finding the perfect jeans that fit. For me, my thighs are thicker than my waist so when I get jeans that actually fit my thighs, it turns out that the waist is too big which saddens me a lot.  I can't count how many times I get this question. I also find it very hard to get very comfortable jeans but I think I seem to have a little way around it which I am willing to share.

These are my tips in no particular order:

Know your size and wear your size: Sometimes, we thick girls get the illusion that we are small or maybe feel ashamed to get a larger size. This right here is your number one problem. Don't be ashamed of who you are, I wear size 42 for my trousers and sometimes size 42 isn't really size 42 in shops that have fluctuating sizes. There are also times I would have to go a size up- 44 just to make sure they fit perfectly. So please stick to your size, it even gives you more confidence when you find your size and they fit and trust me its a lot easier to dress in your size without feeling too big ;)

I luckily stumbled on the perfect jeans from pull and bear: size 42 and stretchy 

Stretchy jeans: Now I'm not talking about jeggings or tights. I mean actual jeans but stretchy. I personally love these types because they take the shape of my body which gives it that perfect fit. Sometimes I get my actual size and make sure they are stretchy so that the waist doesn't turn out too big. But be careful because in some shops, when the jeans are stretchy, it will be perfect to go a size lower for that perfect fit, here I recommend you try it out in the changing room before purchasing (which I detest so much). Most of the time I buy them to try at home, if they don't fit, I return them.

Jeans are from mango- size 42

High Waisted Jeans: I love high waisted jeans. it definitely gives my body a very nice silhouette. In fact, I recommend that most of your jeans be high waisted. It helps to hide some of those naughty folds that would pop out if you wore low waisted jeans. You could even pass with a crop top and not look or feel too exposed.

Jeans are high waisted and stretchy from Fashionnova - size 1x (plus size)

Jeggings/tights: I don't own a lot of these because some of them are not as durable. They look and feel nice at first but after a while, they start slacking or getting overstretched. Instead of them fit perfectly, they drop down from the waist etc. But I mean not all are expensive so you can keep restocking when they wear out. Also, there are some durable jeggings, I get mine from Zara most times.

Jeggings from Zara: size Large

Other pants I recommend are wide legged pants or palazzo pants: Of cos, these are for the special occasions. Those dressy moments you want to feel very put together, try investing in these. They make you look so expensive without trying.

Pants from Zara

If you don't seem to get your size from the regular section, check out the plus size section, they definitely have nice jeans that will definitely fit.

I recommend these shops: Zara, Tally Weil, fashionnova  prettylittlething 

If you would like me to make a post on how to look expensive on a budget, do let me know. I hope you've been able to learn a few tips on how I select the perfect jeans to wear for my body type. Feel free to ask me any more questions you may have.

Stay blessed and remember CONFIDENCE is the best outfit anyone could rock. :)

xoxo
Obsy P.
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WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW BEFORE STARTING A BUSINESS

Hello guys, welcome to yet another blog post. Its been so long since I sat down to write and tbh I'm not sure to say I was busy because I could actually create time for this. I was just caught up with so many other things like growing Deluxe Hues, having fun and spending time with family. I am back in school now for the last most stressful lap of medical school, God help me lol.

Today I will be talking about a few things you need to know before starting a business/being an entrepreneur. I started my business almost a year ago and I have learned sooo much. I haven't even been too long in the game but I certainly can feel the weight lol. Here are a few points:

• You have to have PASSION for whatever it is you want to do. This is the first and most important thing about starting a business or being an entrepreneur. Passion is the only thing that will sustain you in the business world and the only drive to do more regardless of whatever goes wrong. As we go on, you will get to understand why this is really important.
• Being an entrepreneur is never as rosy as it looks on the outside. When you start a business, you have taken a big step. It means a few people would know about you and what you do. Obviously, business is meant to bring income (money) so no matter the stage you are, be it the early or late stage of your business, you are already considered to be making lots of money which is not necessarily always the case. So if you see someone start a business and it looks like he or she is making money and that's why you would want to start yours, then you are on the wrong path.
• You will LOOSE a lot of money. It might not be the same for everyone but from my experience, you have to lose money. The business itself is a risk, it may be fruitful and may not. It is a 50:50 thing. In starting a business, you will have to learn somethings on your own that no one else can teach you. You will have to find different tactics in making your business succeed and in the process is where you loose money because everything is trial an error. What works for the other person may not work for you. No one likes to loose money especially when you are not likely to recover it soon enough, that is why you need your Passion to be top notch if you really want to succeed at what you do.
• You need PATIENCE. You will get annoying customers/clients for sure. Some clients can be very understanding while some can be very rude. This is where self-control and patience come into play. No matter how annoying clients are, you need to give a good customer service. Sometimes, it is not always all about the money, you definitely won't make money all the time. You have to see every client as an opportunity for more clients aka more money :). Just by giving good customer service, you will be surprised at how much your services would be recommended regardless of how expensive or cheap your services are. Establish good working relationships, network and get connected.
• You will get frustrated. Im speaking from experience o lool. See, there are so many logistics behind setting up a business and just when you think you have gotten a hang of it, something else has to go wrong😤. Trust me frustration at this point is an understatement because you are not just getting the logistics wrong, you are also loosing money in the process🙆 and this is where you sit back and question yourself lol, is this business really for me?😓 DO NOT GIVE UP! Just keep pushing, it only means you are almost at your breakthrough point, you just need to give it more time and energy. Ask questions from people that have been through your stage, get feedbacks from your clients and most importantly PRAY!🙏🙇 There is nothing to trivial for him to handle. The moment you feel the heat, just take a step back and breathe, relax and take it one step at a time. 
• Dont be in a hurry to 'blow' lol in Nigerian terms (to blow more or less means to be extremely successful in fame and financially), success is not a days journey. It takes a lot of time, and you need to put in the work for as long as it takes. Tthat's the only way you can appreciate your success. Try to enjoy the process, it would be worth it at the end.

These are just a few of many others. I will also be throwing them in even as im on my journey to success but these are the most important things everyone should know.
Thank you for your time and dont forget nothing is impossible. Keep living your dreams.

xoxo
Obsy P.



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